Author: aditi khandelwal

Who are you?

I want each one to ask ourselves who are you?Are we the same person we were before or did we change in the course of time..? I know change is must. But have we gone soo far that we hardly recognise ourselves. This world changes us., we have to change and adjust according to situations.That is the law of nature. But do we realise in the course of time we are losing or forgetting ourselves. For example: our simple basic hobbies-be it like singing, painting or whatever.Do we have to wait till we reach 40s and realise Oh shit.! I miss singing(for eg). I was a good singer back then but with the flow of life dint have time to do something I’d love to do-that thing which made me -Me ( A completely unique person, although I am one Still). That thing that made me happy. At some point of time we get frustrated about our life and miss our college days, the days when we were free and alive. I know Job, marriage, kids have to be handled with maturity and responsibilites and everything changes our life. But Dude you cant change this. No human on this earth can. But take time to do something u love to Do. Lets not wait for us to turn old n realise our passion. You are still free and alive. Give yourself atleast 5min to do something that u love everyday or atleast once a week. Kuch nai sujhta toh favourite gaane suno yaar full volume pe. Try it and trust me everything will change and Please just pamper yourself every damn day. At the end of the day , Apneko apne sath hi rehna hai.

Fairytale

Life is a fairytale isnt it? Or maybe we believe so. When does this fairytale start..? I guess right from childhood. Right from childhood we see,we imagine, we have been told life is more like a dream come true event And upon that we have these wonderful devices like television-its commercial ads, channels-the serial and now the world wide web.Oh my God, we are brought up in a world where we see n believe in all that. The perfect friends, the perfect siblings,the perfect atmosphere, the perfect life partner everything just so perfect. And trust me, we believe in all that. Reality strikes in when we move out and understand what life is. P. S- Moving out doesnt mean staying away from parents. Dude hum Indians hai,hum gharwalo ke sath hi rehte hai. It just means when we understand what the world is. Now a days when I watch these pre wedding photoshoots-everything looks so real and everybody wants to do it and destination weddings, destination honeymoon.Thank God,this time corona has held us orelse we all would want to go places our friends have been to. From childhood we are in a coccon completely protected and savioured by our parents but somehow when we move out we are unable to accept the reality. The reality is-the world is not a fairytale- we have to strive hard for every damn thing. A lot of people I see give up because their fairytale isn’t come true. I wish there could be a more practical approach to it. So, a lot of lives can be saved. Lets teach our siblings,our friends,our children that life isnt a fairytale.As a result, they will be able to lead life with a more practical approach-Striving hard for what they

Want, never giving up and achieving what they desired for.

A friend

So,this is my first blog. I am sharing some of my thoughts.I hope i find people reading it. Here it goes.. Heard d news of Sushant Singh Rajput.Its all over the news. I was completely shocked. It made me realize how important life is. We all have set our priorities 4life and we live according to them. But dude whatever happens suicide is not an option. Am not sure if such thing exists but I feel there should be call centres where anyone who is depressed can talk to someone and release their stress.Why do we forget life comes only once and we should survive in every situation of life. Life is full of ups n downs(Downs mostly) .I remember my mom use to tell me that whatever happens in life stand straight, Face your problems, this time will too pass and you will emerge as a stronger person. But we as our human nature our not that strong. We all need someone at some point of life. And there comes the role of a friend. A friend is the one who will not judge you and will listen to you wholeheartedly.He will stand by you forever. I want all of us to accept that we need someone to share our joys and sorrows. Trust me,we all have such people in our life. Just find them n talk to them. Talk talk n let free of your thoughts.